Wednesday, March 7, 2012

If Ever

I always thought I'll be married once I turn 22; but due to unforeseen changes and circumstances, I'm 25 and still single. Don't get me wrong, I'm quite glad I still am. There are a lot of things I won't be able to do if I'm married by now. I know how much my parents sacrificed for us (me and my siblings) to have a great future. They are my heroes, and I would want to exceed (or at least match) what they gave to us once I start my own family.

Not to sound cynical, but considering everything that happened (and are happening) in my personal life, I don't think I'll be getting married. I've accepted the possibility of living alone. Let me just emphasize: alone, not lonely. :) I've been jotting down my to-do list (or bucket list) so that I have something to look forward to in the years to come. I've shrugged off the idea of me having a family (or just being a mom)...

until I met them: my favorite daddy and son in my whole wide world. :)



Hey y'all, meet my favorite baby boy: Kyan. :)
Taken in Baguio (Panagbenga 2012)
Daddy Rex and Baby Kyan
My favorite baby boy, Kyan! <3
Rex and Kyan


If ever I'll have a son, I hope he's just as cute, sweet, and as adorable as Kyan;
and I hope my son's dad is as sweet, caring, and as loving as Rex is to Kyan.

If Ever.


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32 comments:

  1. Vonn Angelie DavidMarch 7, 2012 at 5:22 AM

    hmmm.. nice take on the post.. catchy title

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  2. GagayMDMarch 7, 2012 at 8:26 AM

    same here sis,, i used to tell myself, my mom, my family before that when i finish college, i'll immediately get married..but up until now - im in my post grad, i still am single..hehehe.. *apir*

    Ryan is cute, btw.

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    1. Chilipina | Ayzee CasimiroMarch 7, 2012 at 11:31 PM

      *APIR* Hahaha! No regrets naman. Pero di ba hindi naman mawawala sa aten yung isipin na ngayon mga ganitong bagay. Hahaha.

      Thanks! Will let him know. Haha. :)

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  3. AlgeneMarch 7, 2012 at 8:27 AM

    There are always time for everything :) Who knows? You're man is probably right in the corner waiting for the right time to be with you.

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  4. SioneeMarch 7, 2012 at 9:08 AM

    ahehehe cute baby boy! I wish to have a baby boy also ..as cute as Kyan haha

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  5. ROMELOMarch 7, 2012 at 10:21 AM

    by the way, who are they in your life? just curious...

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  6. TrishaMarch 7, 2012 at 1:01 PM

    Aww cutie ang kid <3

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  7. chrisairMarch 7, 2012 at 1:12 PM

    I thought that it was yours, hope your wishes come true

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    1. Chilipina | Ayzee CasimiroMarch 7, 2012 at 11:35 PM

      Kamukha ko ba, Chris? Hahaha! Their gonna flip once they read this. :))

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  8. PALiiiTSMarch 7, 2012 at 1:14 PM

    living alone aint that bad though :) yes, you can be alone but not lonely.

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  9. UnknownMarch 7, 2012 at 4:17 PM

    I just got married almost 2yrs ago and I was already 28 yrs old. Not sure why. But I actually enjoyed my life a a single woman. Though I'm engaged that time, I enjoyed it too. Im sure you'll get to meet your prince charming. Cheers to happy life! =)

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    1. Chilipina | Ayzee CasimiroMarch 7, 2012 at 11:36 PM

      I'm enjoying it now din naman :) Hahahaha. Uhmmm we'll see. If/when he comes. :) Cheers to happy life, indeed. :)

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  10. enzoMarch 7, 2012 at 8:23 PM

    Ohh...so who is Bbay kYan and daddy Rex? Don't they belong to you? :)

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  11. athenaMarch 7, 2012 at 10:12 PM

    such a cute child! :>

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  12. Dyms Y.March 7, 2012 at 10:53 PM

    cartwheelsss!!! Rex and Kyan are lucky to have you!!!! ♥

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  13. LeiMarch 7, 2012 at 11:57 PM

    enjoy the single life once you are married priorities will start to shift na..

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  14. Pink MagaLineMarch 8, 2012 at 12:44 AM

    Cute father and son photos. Hmmm.. makes me wanna think of my future son too. Ano kaya? Wondering*

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  15. ArjAngelMarch 8, 2012 at 1:58 AM

    I really want the same thing for my parents, I want to repay them for everything that they have done for our family.

    oh and patience is a virtue, even if you are not waiting it still comes unexpected.

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  16. MheAnneMarch 8, 2012 at 4:36 AM

    hey you're still so young to conclude you won't be getting married! I believe you are just experiencing the 25-year old syndrome which i felt too at that age which caused me anxiety and almost married (twice! runaway bride hehe)the one who was available. glad i waited for my prince whom i met when i was 33! i am not married till now, but in a wonderful relationship for almost 5 years and looking forward to that day i would marry the one i truly love and respect!

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    1. Chilipina | Ayzee CasimiroMarch 9, 2012 at 6:59 AM

      Yeah. I think it's the Quarter-life crisis. Haha! Thanks for sharing, Mhe-anne. :)

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  17. UnknownMarch 8, 2012 at 11:30 AM

    same here. ang dami kong plans before at lumagpas na ata ako sa plans ko. haha. I also have my ideal family na gusto ko magkaroon, someday.

    I believe GOD is busy preparing the right one for me.

    CHEERS!

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  18. markpogiMarch 8, 2012 at 12:37 PM

    I used to think of it when I was in college. When I was 18, I wanted to get married by 21. When I turned 21, I want to get married by 25, until I got married at 30. XD

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    1. Chilipina | Ayzee CasimiroMarch 9, 2012 at 7:03 AM

      When my plan of getting married by 22 wasn't successful, I stopped planning na. Wala na kong tinakdang age. Hahaha!

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  19. IreneMarch 8, 2012 at 10:06 PM

    Cute little boy :-) I'm 28, single, and happy. I believe happiness is a choice whether we're in a relationship or not. And if you're destined to be married, you'll meet your prince in God's perfect time. :-)

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  20. Cherrie LutraniaMarch 9, 2012 at 7:48 AM

    Hi Ayzee!!! :) i dont know if you still remember me, but im glad to see you here in blogspot. :)

    fishbone ><(((;>

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    1. Chilipina | Ayzee CasimiroMarch 9, 2012 at 9:11 AM

      OMG! Cherrie!!! Of course I remember you! Grabe naman! :)

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    2. Cherrie LutraniaMarch 9, 2012 at 9:25 AM

      hahah!!! thanks chiva. maganda ka parin, walang kupas!!! musta kna?? :)

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